After Simmin and Nancy Jane came Sarah A. L., born about 1853, and probably named after Sarah A. L. Chatwood, Hiram E. Edin's wife.
Elizabeth's father Joseph died on May 10, 1854, in Tallapoosa County, AL. Elizabeth was 28.
By 1855 the family had probably moved from Tallapoosa County, because they are not listed in the 1855 State Census for AL in Tallapoosa. (Thanks for that observation, Cuz). Most likely in Bibb County, where they showed up in 1860.
In the 1860 US Census for AL, Elizabeth was living on the East Side Cahaba River, Bibb County. She was 32, born GA. Husband B. Edins was 36, a mechanic, born AL, $650, $600, cannot read and write. Also in the household were Simeon A., 12, Nancy J., 10, Sarah L., 7, James B. (James Blakely), 5, Eliza E., (named after her sister Eliza) 3, and Rebecca, 2/12 (probably named after Blakely's sister). Neighbors: Barnett (two children marry Barnetts), John and Eliza Helton Hardy (Elizabeth's sister and husband), John H. Helton (Elizabeth's brother), Allen and Martha Hardy Helton, Freeman.
They were surrounded by her family rather than his. This was the last time that the Census records that the family has any money.
Husband Blakely enlisted in the Confederate Army in September 1861 and served until 1865. His service story belongs in another blog entry, but you can find the details at:
http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/11081306/person/-530249296?ssrc=
Son Simmin enlisted in the Confederate Army in 1864 aged 15 and served until a little over a year later in 1865, when he was discharged. See Simmin's records at:
http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/11081306/person/-530243305
For Elizabeth this five-year period from age 33 to 38 must have been a horrendous struggle: living in Bibb County, no husband, no eldest son, six children. Luckily she had family living nearby, including Allen, Eliza Helton Hardy and John H. Helton.
Both Blakely and Simmin survived—luckily for me.
In the 1866 State Census for AL, B. Edins is in Bibb County. In the household are one male under 10 (John H., 2), two males 10 - 20 (Simmin, about 18, and James Blakely, 10), one male 40 - 50 (Blakely, about 44), four males total; three females 10 and under (Eliza E., about 9, Rebecca, about 6, Mary Alice, one-ish,) one female 10 - 20 (Sarah L., 13), and one female 30 - 40 (Elizabeth, about 40). Total people: 9.
The female child who was 10 - 20 was definitely Sarah, 13, who was enumerated in the household in 1870 and survived to marry John Honeycutt on October 2, 1871, in Shelby County. But where was Nancy Jane? She was still alive in 1861, when "Blake Edins" went off to war, according to his records at ADAH:
"Left Sep 6, 1861. Had seven dependents (wife and six children); his family was allowed to draw $120.00 per year."
http://www.archives.state.al.us/civilwar/soldier.cfm?id=56294
Maybe Nancy Jane married, or died, or was simply living with another family. It's hard to tell.
In the 1870 U.S. Census for AL, Elizabeth was living with her family on Beat 6, Shelby Springs P.O., Bibb County. She was 47 (should be 42), born GA, cannot read or write. Blakely Eddins was 48, a carpenter, born in AL, can read and write. Also in the household were Sarah A, 17, James B., 15, Eliza E., 13, Rebecca, 10, John H., (probably named after her brother) 6, Mary A., 4, and Louana, 1. Neighbors: Holcomb, Guy, Wright, Armstrong, Vickory, Kennedy, Ousley. No close family that I can see.
They were, however, really close to Shelby County, because "B. Edins" appears on an 1869 list of eligible voters for Shelby County.
http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~alshelby/voters8.html
Notice the ages of the last three children: John H., 6, Mary A., 4, and Louana, 1. The last two were definitely born after Blakely got home from the war. However, according to the 1900 U.S. Census for AL, John H. Edins was born in January 1864. Which would have meant that Blake had leave about May 1863. It's possible. Around that time he was listed as a nurse, location undisclosed. Or else Elizabeth was really, really lonely back in Bibb County.
You see my issue with dates?
Moving on:
In the 1880 US Census for AL, Elizabeth was 52, born GA, and living with Blakley and family on Beat #7 in Bibb County. Elizabeth's parents were both born in GA. She could not read or write. He was listed as Blakley Eddins, born about 1823 in AL, 57, carpenter, both parents born SC, could read and write. Also living there were John 15, Mary Alice, 14, Louina 10, and Elizabeth's mother, Mattie Helton, 92, born GA. Mattie's mother was born in GA, her father in Ireland.
They all live in the same town as Jesse Mahon, Allen Helton, Joe Helton, Phelan Oakley—all in or connected to Elizabeth's family.
By 1880 Elizabeth had five, maybe six grandchildren from Simmin: Launnie (?), James, Blakley, Len Franklin, Rebecca Elizabeth, and Gertrude Ann. Launnie and James have disappeared by 1880. Blake, Len Franklin, Rebecca Elizabeth and Gertrude Ann were living with Simmin and (new) wife Mollie in Dekalb County. Other children may have given her grandbabies, but I haven't found any yet.
It's likely that the family moved to Jefferson County between 1880 and 1885. Why? Maybe so that Blakely and/or Simmin could work in the Birmingham Rolling Mill?
http://faculty.upj.pitt.edu/jalexander/Research%20archive/Johnson%20Company/Johnson%20Company%20Historic%20Archive.htm
On June 14, 1885, Blakely died at age 62, and she became a widow at the age of 58. Why was Blakely buried at East Lake in Birmingham? Later in 1888 Elizabeth's grandson Blakley was buried there when he died at at 18. Why was Blakley buried there, and not Elizabeth? Did the young Blakely die unexpectedly, and they couldn't afford another lot? That's happened at least one other time in my family.
Elizabeth died 11 years after Blakely at age 70, on July 14, 1896. She had likely been living with one of her Edins children in Birmingham. Is there an obit in the Birmingham Times?? I'll have to check next time I'm in AL.
She was buried in Pleasant Valley Cemetery, the same cemetery as many of her children and grandchildren, including Simmin and James Blakely and their children.
I'm unaware of any written evidence that Elizabeth left to tell us what she was like. However, staying married to Blakely and mothering Simmin required a ton of patience. Struggling through the War required fortitude. Living near her family, she probably showed helpfulness and loyalty.
Sounds like a lots of women from our family.
:-)